What can I do to stop my from being sore after having ?

OK, so everyone is gonna say use more lube or get wetter, but the fact is that if he is really large, lube may not be enough. If he is thicker, then you may be SOL. If he is longer, then you may have a chance. You need to try more positions that put you in control of the . You on top allows you to decide whether he fully enters or just part of the way. Remember, your in charge. If he doesnt like it or he tries to change to a position that hurts, no $%^ for him. You should be comfortable...period. Lots of lube definitely doesnt hurt though!